❌ I disagree with the popular notion that...Some ideas are h..
Added 2025-06-27 16:18:33 +0000 UTC❌ I disagree with the popular notion that...
Some ideas are heard so often that they begin to seem true.
But I disagree. As a sexologist. As a human being. As a live interviewer who has heard hundreds of stories.
Here's what I disagree with:
🗣 That talking about desire is shameful.
🛏 That sex in a long relationship inevitably gets boring.
🧱 That men don't have sexual vulnerability.
📆 That sexuality ends after 40.
💋 That “nice girls” don't talk about sex.
📸 That the body has to be “perfect” to be desirable.
💧 That being emotional is a weakness.
🤝 That intimacy is only about sex.
🛠 That a sexologist is only “about technique in bed.”
🔮 That if your partner doesn't guess your desires, he's bad.
🧳 That problems in sex are embarrassing to discuss.
📌 If any of these resonated, write them down.
Which thought would you also disagree with?
Or vice versa - which of these things do you still have a hard time letting go of?
Let's talk about it honestly.
